Our Appetizer.: Shit Happens

May 14, 2014

Shit Happens


This post just needs a really silly picture because well...shit happens

I usually link up with my confessions for Wednesdays and I still am today but I'm turning this post into a post about all the shit that's happened. No filter. No regrets. No nothing, but shit that's happened.

As a bunch of you know, I am newly single...shit happens. And if you didn't know that I'm newly single well then get with the program. This word "single" means a lot of things to me right now. It means alone, which isn't a bad thing because I haven't been "single" in about 4 years. It means the freedom to be as silly, boring, crazy, lame, annoying, or whatever else I want to be. "Single" also means that the ex didn't see me as good enough, which sucks to be him because I personally think I'm pretty freaking great.
But like I said...shit happens. 

One of the things that I find the most disrespectful thing on the face of this planet is when someone ignores me. Just flat out does not reply to text messages, return phone calls, ignores me on social media. Well those things have happened this week, past weekend and last week...but shit happens

I find it really funny and interesting how as soon as my ex and I broke up his ex (ex) girlfriend has been all over his social media sites. For the four years that him and I were together she knew to stay away fairly well, but now that him and I are broken up she's everywhere. Hmm, I wonder how she found out that him and I broke up (we didn't post it all over Facebook or anything). All I gotta say about this is that he threw a diamond for a stone and shit happens



A few weeks ago a few girl friends and I went to Pittsburgh for a concert. I tried a new look and I think it looked great. The shoes were a little rough after drinking way too much alcohol, as in I fell a few too many times but shit happens. Oh and I made the terrible mistake of calling my ex bawling my eyes out because I was drunk and emotional. Totally shouldn't have done that but shit happens.

I am slowly moving into my new apartment which I am beyond happy about. I've been paying rent since May 1st and only stayed there one night...shit happens. I adore the apartment and the furniture I picked out, it's so girly and modern. I will be posting pictures of it when I'm closer to getting it done. 

I went to Value City to purchase furniture and only wanted to spend at most $3,000 for a bedroom set, dining room table with 4 chairs, a sofa and a new mattress. I walked out of there spending $3,500 but like I've been saying...shit happens. I had my furniture delivered on Saturday, everything was great till they got to getting the couch in the apartment. Well the darn couch wouldn't fit because the door is a crazy angle and there's a wall in the way. So I had to send the couch back, shit happens. I'm getting the same couch just the smaller loveseat on Friday, it better fit because I am in love with the sofa if not....well then shit happens.

I've been so MIA from blogland because life is crazy and shit happens. I will get better once I'm all settled into my new place and have internet there. Till then bare with me, I promise things will get better around here!


Lavi is totally going to kill me for posting this picture but shit happens :) But I think this picture is cute and funny. Come on peeps, who loves out glasses!?

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23 comments:

  1. New apartments and decorating are two of my favorite things. Can't wait to see how you got yours done!

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    1. Thanks!! I am so excited for this change. I have my bedroom almost all sent I just need a few more decorations but those will come with time. I cannot wait to share pictures of my new place once it is done, or close to being done.

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  2. Love the headband and hairstyle! Can't wait to see pics f the apartment when you're all moved in!

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    1. Thanks!! I was so nervous to wear the headband because I didn't think I could pull it off. I cannot wait to share pictures and stories about this move!

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  3. Shit does happen and I'm so happy that you're just embracing it for what it is!!

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    1. Thanks girl! I needed to use this post as bringing a little more life and comedy into my blog. I feel like my blog is so boring so I need something to spice things up and right now life has been a crazy rollercoaster of Shit Happens!

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  4. love this ;) and i love all the pics. that second one - holy hotness girl, you look amazing. we've all been there with the drunk calling - oops! haha. apartment tour needed, i think! :) and just quietly, your ex sounds like a douche - but yay for being happy and doing whatever the hell you want!

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    1. Thanks girl!! I appreciate it!! I haven't stepped foot in a gym in about 2-3 months but I did take barre classes for a month or so. The ex wasn't bad when we were together but I saw a different side of me once we ended things. But I'm definitely loving single life!

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  5. LOL I love this! Isn't it so ironic about the ex gfs?!

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    1. Thanks!! Ugh that girl just irks me. I just think it's so ironic that now she's newly single as well. Funny how shit happens like that.

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  6. I love this post!! And I agree he threw a diamond for a stone!!!!!

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    1. I know! Me either!! It will be so much fun :) So much to talk about!

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  8. Hang in there girl, we've all be there! Good luck with the moving process and looking forward to seeing the space once you've settled in.

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    1. Thanks! Life has been pretty damn good so far, even going through this break up.

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  9. First of all... your hair is AMAZING! GIMME YOUR HAIR!
    Congrats on the new place and fresh start! :)

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    1. Thanks thanks thanks! Don't let my hair fool you, they are extensions.

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  10. Can't wait to see your apartment! Sometimes I really hate girls ( and guys) but the fact that girls come out of the woodwork so quickly after a breakup really pisses me off. Garbage.You just keep movin on up with your hot self. :)

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    1. Thanks!!! If he wants to talk to her, date her, or anything with her....then more power to him. Just funny how all of the sudden she's around again. I do agree, it's garbage :)

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  11. This post just gave me life! Taking all the bad things that anyone would go on a rant about and saying well thats life, is so much better. I love when people are more realistic and up front about life. I know things have been hard, but you hang in there you definitely have the right attitude and things going for yourself. You got it going on lady!

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    1. Thanks girl! It really means a lot. I spent my fair share of time bitching, complaining, crying and being upset over the break up. But the breakup showed me a different side to him which I didn't expect to see but shit happens, life moves on. Thanks for the encouragement and I hope you stick around to read all about my single life :)

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  12. Congrats on the new place. I know when "shit happens" sometimes it is rough but I truly feel that strong women can get through anything. As someone who is also newly single I know that it is different, but I find embracing the things I can do while single is making me happy.

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